If you’re reading this, chances are you know this feeling. 

Feeling like despite everything you have going for you, you’re in a rut. You are a high-performer who has a solid track record in work and life. While on the outside things might look like you are killing it, deep down you aren't particularly excited about anything or anyone in your life.

You go through the motions, in reactionary mode all day, hoping that it’s all leading somewhere better, somehow. 

Many people would look at you and say you’re successful. You are a Type-A personality that knows how to get things done. You might have a great deal of achievements and possessions that you dreamed about and worked to get for a long time. 

Yet at the end of the day you find yourself asking, “Is this it? Why do I still feel this way?”


If this sounds familiar, it's time to up-level. 

But you won’t find it with more of the same: the next promotion, the next job, the next date, the next distraction.

The turning point can only come when you decide you've endured being “just fine” for too long. 

For many of my clients, the tipping point comes in the form of an unexpected event that snaps them out of their numbing routine.

Perhaps they lose their job.

Or a long-term relationship comes to an abrupt end.

Or someone dear to them passes away unexpectedly. 

Or they simply wake up one day and find they’ve been over-eating, over-medicated, over-worked, watching too much TV alone, or attracting unhealthy relationships for too long. 

If you've reached this point and you have a sincere desire to optimize your life, you've come to the right place. 


How Coaching Can Help

If podcasts, self-help books, and an extra mile on your run feels good,  but you are still left with much to desire;

If you feel that something is holding you back and you can’t quite put your finger on it (lost in a haze); 

If you feel that you are reactive to the world around you and just want to grab life by the horns, but let each week pass by….

My coaching may be for you.

I work with men who are ready to optimize their lives. 


My clients are hungry to take their well-being, their relationships, their career—heck, their whole lives—to a new level. They know that their old patterns just aren’t doing it for them anymore. 

They are ready to make lasting change. 

They are ready to attract the right partner.

They are ready to be confident in their mission here on earth.

They are ready to tear through any self-beliefs that are holding them back. 

Is that you?

Let's connect--simply hit the button below for a complimentary clarity session. 

My style is a combination of high-performance + spirituality + consciousness coaching, with a focus on optimizing the patterns that are blocking you from being a kick-ass leader in the world. 

This is about you becoming the man you've dreamed of. Are you willing to put in the effort to become him? Let's connect.

My sessions with Carla provided a light during weeks filled with challenges - which I now see as assignments - to living a fuller life of integrity towards my purpose and goals.

It was extremely helpful to process my past as well as present situations and to be able to receive guidance in reframing every experience from a potentially harmful one, to a constructive one with questions and visualization tools.
— Paul, Senior Management Consultant, NYC